But same sex marriage would destroy the institution

Yeah right. You know damn well that that will not satisfy the religious reich who wish to drive homosexuals back into the closet. The right is not suggesting this as a solution. They have not offered any legislation like this. It's just what you throw out (knowing it does not have a snowball's chance in hell) to cover your bigotry.

And let me ask you this... Which has the BETTER chance of becoming law? My solution, or outright Gay Marriage? I can tell you, my solution is doable, and a LOT of people on the right would support it. Damo is cool with it, and he's also as Conservative as I am on most things. I don't know, haven't done a poll or anything, but I am willing to bet, a comprehensive Civil Unions bill like I described, would have majority support across mainstream America. On the other hand, Gay Marriage has failed 71 times now at the ballot box in 37 states. It has been totally rejected in every poll that's ever been done on it. People do not want Gay Marriage, and are NOT going to pass it into law... THAT is what has a "snowballs chance" here! What I proposed is a reasonable compromise for ALL sides, respecting ALL points of view, and remedying ALL the problems and issues. Yet, you want to continue pushing the issue.... WHY? Do you not really give a shit if gay couples enjoy the benefits? Is it not really about doing what it right? Let's just admit the truth, you want to tear down a religious establishment, and smear feces in the face of religious people, and THAT is what this is all about for you!
 
Larry King is getting his 8th divorce, Elizabeth Taylor is possibly getting married for a 9th time, Jesse James and Tiger Woods are screwing EVERYTHING, John and Kate have 8 kids then split, yet the idea of same-sex marriage is what is going to destroy the institution of marriage?? REALLY??

does the fact that drought is not good for your lawn mean that weeds are also not good for your lawn?
 
From Dixie:
I have never heard ANYONE articulate this. There is no logical basis for such an argument. The only place I ever see it claimed, is by pro-gay-marriage people, who seem to think that is an argument against gay marriage. I have heard that it will harm the "sanctity of the institution" and I agree, it indeed would do that. It would also establish in law, a precedent for "rights" based on sexuality, which is a dangerous 'slippery slope' given our Constitution demands equal protection under the law. If you are going to allow 'marriage' between homosexuals, how can you discriminate against other sexual deviants and remain true to the Constitution?

This is nothing more than an appeal to fear. If protect the rights of homosexuals then we HAVE to protect the rights of pedophiles. It is also one of the stupidest arguments around. Even if discrimination against homosexuality was given the highest level of scrutiny, it would not translate into protection of pedophiles. Children cannot consent to sexual activity. We have laws on the books right now that say EVEN IF a 12 year old girl or boy consents to sex, it is a crime. Every state in the union has statutory rape laws, and when children are even younger, we have laws that make those actions even more aggrivated. This argument gets shot down in every constitutional law class in every law school in the country.

Also, if same sex marriages were legal churches would not be required to marry queers. You really have no clue about the law. Churches in this country do indeed discriminate on the basis of race. There are several white supremacist churches that preach racial purity and even hatred that are protected by the first amendment and are recognized by the federal government as bone fide religions. Christian Identity churches come to mind immediately.
 
Nope, they are not denied any right that I have. Sorry! You can repeat that as much as you like, it is still as untrue as it ever was, repeating it will never make it true.

This was already handled in Loving. Your kind use to argue that everyone had an equal right to marry someone of the same race. The court rejected that nonsense.
 
You are the bigot here. I gave you a viable and reasonable solution that addresses EVERY problem from ALL sides! You are (for some reason) not willing to accept my proposal, instead, you wish to continue on arguing for something you're simply NOT going to ever get! It seems to me, you just want the ISSUE, not a solution. That is a BIGOT, that is a BIGOTED way of thinking! YOU are RIGHT and everyone else is WRONG, and it doesn't matter if someone comes up with a solution to solve the problem, you will stubbornly cling to your BIGOTED beliefs and continue to argue!

Again, I would be happy to completely remove the government from marriage, other than it's role in settling contractual disputes and ensuring that parties to the contract have the capacity to contract. But until something like passes the state must not be allowed to discriminate. I don't know what problem you are having understanding that.
 
And let me ask you this... Which has the BETTER chance of becoming law? My solution, or outright Gay Marriage? I can tell you, my solution is doable, and a LOT of people on the right would support it. Damo is cool with it, and he's also as Conservative as I am on most things. I don't know, haven't done a poll or anything, but I am willing to bet, a comprehensive Civil Unions bill like I described, would have majority support across mainstream America. On the other hand, Gay Marriage has failed 71 times now at the ballot box in 37 states. It has been totally rejected in every poll that's ever been done on it. People do not want Gay Marriage, and are NOT going to pass it into law... THAT is what has a "snowballs chance" here! What I proposed is a reasonable compromise for ALL sides, respecting ALL points of view, and remedying ALL the problems and issues. Yet, you want to continue pushing the issue.... WHY? Do you not really give a shit if gay couples enjoy the benefits? Is it not really about doing what it right? Let's just admit the truth, you want to tear down a religious establishment, and smear feces in the face of religious people, and THAT is what this is all about for you!

You wouldn't be suggesting it if the momentum for gay marriage was not fully against you. It's going to happen and in my lifetime. The older generations will die off and be replaced with more enlightened voters. Many in the older generations will change their minds as they find that someone they love is negatively effected by such discrimination. The movement on this is all one way traffic.

Don't worry I am sure there will be some dumbass around to claim that it is wrong to blame the homophobes because NOBODY supported gay rights during this period.

I don't care about you fragile, delicate religious fucks who believe the freedom of others somehow violates your rights. All this nonsense about how it is somehow an attack on you. It is not. It's about equality under the law.

But the churches will eventually evolve, as well. Religion is quite resilient in that way and I have no fear that it will survive. Hell, religion will probably claim credit for the gay rights movement someday.
 
This is nothing more than an appeal to fear. If protect the rights of homosexuals then we HAVE to protect the rights of pedophiles. It is also one of the stupidest arguments around. Even if discrimination against homosexuality was given the highest level of scrutiny, it would not translate into protection of pedophiles. Children cannot consent to sexual activity. We have laws on the books right now that say EVEN IF a 12 year old girl or boy consents to sex, it is a crime. Every state in the union has statutory rape laws, and when children are even younger, we have laws that make those actions even more aggrivated. This argument gets shot down in every constitutional law class in every law school in the country.

Also, if same sex marriages were legal churches would not be required to marry queers. You really have no clue about the law. Churches in this country do indeed discriminate on the basis of race. There are several white supremacist churches that preach racial purity and even hatred that are protected by the first amendment and are recognized by the federal government as bone fide religions. Christian Identity churches come to mind immediately.

Why would Dixie object to pedophiles marrying? I thought he supported the traditional definition of marriage that allowed men to marry 12 year old girls?

The slippery slope argument is so retarded here when just a little over a generation ago this was perfectly acceptable. If anything the slippery slope to that is on the side of those arguing for some slavish devotion to the habits of dead people.
 
This is nothing more than an appeal to fear. If protect the rights of homosexuals then we HAVE to protect the rights of pedophiles. It is also one of the stupidest arguments around. Even if discrimination against homosexuality was given the highest level of scrutiny, it would not translate into protection of pedophiles. Children cannot consent to sexual activity. We have laws on the books right now that say EVEN IF a 12 year old girl or boy consents to sex, it is a crime. Every state in the union has statutory rape laws, and when children are even younger, we have laws that make those actions even more aggrivated. This argument gets shot down in every constitutional law class in every law school in the country.

Also, if same sex marriages were legal churches would not be required to marry queers. You really have no clue about the law. Churches in this country do indeed discriminate on the basis of race. There are several white supremacist churches that preach racial purity and even hatred that are protected by the first amendment and are recognized by the federal government as bone fide religions. Christian Identity churches come to mind immediately.

Okay, the laws we have regarding minors and consent, are laws man made. Just as we once had laws against sodomy, they can easily be changed. If we are "re-defining" stuff to suit our tastes and preferences, what guarantee do we have that a future court might also change age of accountability/consent laws? NONE! Those can fall as easily as sodomy laws fell, in my opinion.

As for the churches, I don't know why you can't comprehend that churches don't get to violate your constitutional rights, but they simply can't do that. They can preach whatever, they can have rules and guidelines for ministers, but they can't just outright violate your Constitutional rights.

Again, I would be happy to completely remove the government from marriage, other than it's role in settling contractual disputes and ensuring that parties to the contract have the capacity to contract. But until something like passes the state must not be allowed to discriminate. I don't know what problem you are having understanding that.

There is no discrimination. You keep insisting there is, but there is not. States issue marriage licenses, and marriage is the union of a man and woman. It doesn't matter if they are homo or hetero sexual. The state does not discriminate, they will issue a marriage license to anyone who is of legal age, not closely related, and are male and female. What problem are you having with that? The state will not issue an electricians license to a certified plumber, it doesn't mean they discriminate against plumbers, it means the plumber doesn't qualify for an electricians license.

You wouldn't be suggesting it if the momentum for gay marriage was not fully against you. It's going to happen and in my lifetime. The older generations will die off and be replaced with more enlightened voters. Many in the older generations will change their minds as they find that someone they love is negatively effected by such discrimination. The movement on this is all one way traffic.

Don't worry I am sure there will be some dumbass around to claim that it is wrong to blame the homophobes because NOBODY supported gay rights during this period.

I don't care about you fragile, delicate religious fucks who believe the freedom of others somehow violates your rights. All this nonsense about how it is somehow an attack on you. It is not. It's about equality under the law.

But the churches will eventually evolve, as well. Religion is quite resilient in that way and I have no fear that it will survive. Hell, religion will probably claim credit for the gay rights movement someday.

The "momentum" is not against me, in every ballot it's ever been on, gay marriage has been resoundingly defeated by the voters, usually by 70% or more, even in the most liberal areas of our country. It is ignorant and insulting to try and compare homosexuality with race discrimination, they are two completely different things, and not related in ANY aspect. This is nothing more than a strawman you've constructed, because you think it may sway some opinions, and I am sure it probably has among the ignorant. It's just an invalid comparison on every level.

Why would Dixie object to pedophiles marrying? I thought he supported the traditional definition of marriage that allowed men to marry 12 year old girls?

The slippery slope argument is so retarded here when just a little over a generation ago this was perfectly acceptable. If anything the slippery slope to that is on the side of those arguing for some slavish devotion to the habits of dead people.

And again, you codify in law, the criteria of sexual behavior as the basis for 'rights' and you will certainly open the door to ALL sexual behavior being given the same rights. It is the "equal protection" clause in that pesky Constitution thingy, not my personal viewpoint and opinion. Now, I suppose we could modify the Constitution to remove the "equal protection" clause, but I don't suppose that would fly any better than Gay Marriage.

You can say... On, that would never happen, we have this law and that law and kids can't consent... but laws can be changed, things can be 're-defined' based on our sexual preferences, you've established the precedent for that with Gay Marriage, so you have a bit of a problem there. You have effectively paved the way for any perversion to become codified into law, and traditional "meanings" of things, changed to fit our sexual tastes. No one is saying this would happen next year, or in the next decade, but it would eventually happen, because the precedent is set. Polygamists are already pushing for THEIR sexual preferences to be recognized in law, and Sochead has already given us insight into his views regarding marriage of mother and son, as well as polygamy. So don't blow smoke up my ass and tell me this is as far as it would ever go, I don't buy that. If you create a law based on a person's sexual preference, you have to allow other sexual preferences equal protection under the law, it's in the fucking Constitution, dumb asses!

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Again, for those who have failed to pay attention... My compromise solution which gives everyone what they claim to want, and solves all the problems:

1. Governments no longer issue "Marriage" licenses.
2. They are replaced with a Civil Union contract instead.
3. Churches can continue to "marry" whoever they please.
4. CU contracts would be between two consenting adults regardless of their relationship.
5. Tax breaks, insurance, and other benefits associated with "married" couples, would then apply to any couple with a CU contract.
6. Old "Marriage Licenses" would be recognized as a CU contract.

This solution removes any issue of sexuality, and any issue of religious beliefs. It puts the issue of "gay marriage" to rest forever, and removes our government from the sanctioning of a religious tradition and custom. There is no 'slippery slope' and there is no 'discrimination' and everyone is happy! Problem Solved!

I will ask you one more time... WHY are you opposed to doing THIS?
 
You still have a problem. You can have multiple sex partners. That's not illegal. So why should multiple wives be prohibited? I don't believe it should, so long as it does no violate an existing marriage contract.

Further, why is it okay to redefine the traditional definitions of marriage that allowed multiple wives?

As far as mother/son marriages or the like, I really don't see the need to bar them either. Though I find that repulsive, allowing such marriages would not lead to a wave of them. So why fear that marriages between people of the same sex would?

Every argument against same sex marriage is nothing but a bullshit attempt to rationalize bigotry.

i don't have a problem, i don't see why bigamy is illegal
 
Nope, they are not denied any right that I have. Sorry! You can repeat that as much as you like, it is still as untrue as it ever was, repeating it will never make it true.

it is true, you're just not willing to accept the truth because of your bigotry
 
Okay, the laws we have regarding minors and consent, are laws man made. Just as we once had laws against sodomy, they can easily be changed. If we are "re-defining" stuff to suit our tastes and preferences, what guarantee do we have that a future court might also change age of accountability/consent laws? NONE! Those can fall as easily as sodomy laws fell, in my opinion.

We "redefined" marriage to exclude pedophiles. Yes, the laws can change again. That has jack shit to do with gay marriage and if gay marriage goes nowhere, the laws can still change.

Why is it you are not arguing for a return to the grand traditions of yesterday that allowed perverts to marry children?

As for the churches, I don't know why you can't comprehend that churches don't get to violate your constitutional rights, but they simply can't do that. They can preach whatever, they can have rules and guidelines for ministers, but they can't just outright violate your Constitutional rights.

They would not be violating anyone's constitutional rights. They enjoy "ministerial exceptions" which would ensure that they could not be forced to marry homosexuals. They don't have to marry people of different faiths, biracial couples or anybody now. Most churches require you to jump through numerous hoops to get married within their walls.

You are fucking clueless or just being purposefully stupid again.

There is no discrimination. You keep insisting there is, but there is not. States issue marriage licenses, and marriage is the union of a man and woman. It doesn't matter if they are homo or hetero sexual. The state does not discriminate, they will issue a marriage license to anyone who is of legal age, not closely related, and are male and female. What problem are you having with that? The state will not issue an electricians license to a certified plumber, it doesn't mean they discriminate against plumbers, it means the plumber doesn't qualify for an electricians license.

And marriage use to be the union of a man and woman of the same race. In fact, that is largely the reason the government got in the marriage licensing business to begin with.


The "momentum" is not against me, in every ballot it's ever been on, gay marriage has been resoundingly defeated by the voters, usually by 70% or more, even in the most liberal areas of our country. It is ignorant and insulting to try and compare homosexuality with race discrimination, they are two completely different things, and not related in ANY aspect. This is nothing more than a strawman you've constructed, because you think it may sway some opinions, and I am sure it probably has among the ignorant. It's just an invalid comparison on every level.

You stop using the EXACT same arguments the racist used and I will stop pointing out the similarities.

And again, you codify in law, the criteria of sexual behavior as the basis for 'rights' and you will certainly open the door to ALL sexual behavior being given the same rights. It is the "equal protection" clause in that pesky Constitution thingy, not my personal viewpoint and opinion. Now, I suppose we could modify the Constitution to remove the "equal protection" clause, but I don't suppose that would fly any better than Gay Marriage.

And again, you are the one attempting to base rights on sexuality. My view is that sexuality has no bearing on one's rights anymore than race does. If a black man can marry a black woman, then so can I and if black woman can marry a black man then so can I.

he notion that children cannot contract has been with us for a very long time and it's scope has only expanded. That is not likely to change and there is nothing in the arguments for gay marriage that makes it more likely to change. It's just a red herring.
 
No, MY argument is the same as yours! A 10-year-old driver is no less safe on the road than a drunk! Allowing them to drive would pose no more risk to me than the thousands of drunks on the road daily! It's the same argument as the OP makes. Drunks and incompetent drivers have already compromised highway safety, so what harm would there be in allowing 10-year-olds to drive?

Major strawman presentation.
Major fail. :palm:
 
No one is denying homosexuals a damn thing! They have the exact same right as everyone else! They can't marry same-sex, but I can't marry a GOAT! Marriage is between a MAN and WOMAN, and it doesn't matter if they are homosexual, and no homosexual is prohibited from marrying a person of the opposite sex, just as I am not! There is NO RIGHT being denied to people based on their sexuality, we all have the SAME rights, we can all do the SAME thing!

You stated that "homosexuals are prohibited from marriage" and that is FALSE! That is not the case, and you haven't proven it to be the case! No state has ANY law specifically "prohibiting" homosexuals from doing a damn thing that the rest of us aren't also prohibited from doing!

So you were OK with laws that prohibited different races from marrying each other??

I mean; it's not like they were prohibited from marrying, as long as it was within their own race.
 
that is because relations with goats are illegal, thus it makes sense that marriage to a goat is not recognized

homosexual relations are not illegal, thus, it is illogical to have that marriage not be recognized

you are in fact denying them rights, they are prohibited from enjoying state sanctioned rights that other people who engage in likewise legal relations, enjoy. that is a fact.

But if Dixie WANTS to have relationships with his goat, who are we to criticize the goats choice in companions.
 
So you were OK with laws that prohibited different races from marrying each other??

I mean; it's not like they were prohibited from marrying, as long as it was within their own race.


Not the same thing. People were being denied the 'right' (I still don't agree it's a right) to marry someone based on the color of their skin, which was racial discrimination. There is no such discrimination currently happening, homosexuals are not prohibited from marriage... but marriage IS the union of a man and woman! Same sex unions are NOT marriage, they are something entirely different, and if people want to call them marriages, that's fine, I have no problem with that, but we can't redefine marriage to suit someone's ignorance of terminology. If we can do that, we can redefine ANYTHING! If some group of "teabaggers" wants to call "free speech" putting a bullet through your head, can we redefine the law to make that become free speech? That's exactly what you are saying! You don't like the terminology, so you want to change the definition!

But all of this aside...My compromise solution which gives everyone what they claim to want, and solves all the problems:

1. Governments no longer issue "Marriage" licenses.
2. They are replaced with a Civil Union contract instead.
3. Churches can continue to "marry" whoever they please.
4. CU contracts would be between two consenting adults regardless of their relationship.
5. Tax breaks, insurance, and other benefits associated with "married" couples, would then apply to any couple with a CU contract.
6. Old "Marriage Licenses" would be recognized as a CU contract.

I will ask you once again... WHY are you opposed to doing THIS?

To make it easier for you PINHEADS to answer, I'll give you some multiple choices to pick from, since you are obviously having trouble finding an answer to my question....

A. It doesn't let us continue harping and moaning about the racist right wingers!
B. It takes away one of our prized issues to bash the religious right with!
C. It would remove the strawman arguments that let us compare this with Civil Rights!
D. We wouldn't be able to throw shit in the face of Religion!
E. Gay people would then actually be able to have the benefits the little queers want!
F. We don't want to solve problems, we just want to argue about them incessantly!


Okay... take your pick or submit your own, but answer the goddamn question already!
 
Not the same thing. People were being denied the 'right' (I still don't agree it's a right) to marry someone based on the color of their skin, which was racial discrimination. There is no such discrimination currently happening, homosexuals are not prohibited from marriage... but marriage IS the union of a man and woman! Same sex unions are NOT marriage, they are something entirely different, and if people want to call them marriages, that's fine, I have no problem with that, but we can't redefine marriage to suit someone's ignorance of terminology. If we can do that, we can redefine ANYTHING! If some group of "teabaggers" wants to call "free speech" putting a bullet through your head, can we redefine the law to make that become free speech? That's exactly what you are saying! You don't like the terminology, so you want to change the definition!

But all of this aside...My compromise solution which gives everyone what they claim to want, and solves all the problems:

1. Governments no longer issue "Marriage" licenses.
2. They are replaced with a Civil Union contract instead.
3. Churches can continue to "marry" whoever they please.
4. CU contracts would be between two consenting adults regardless of their relationship.
5. Tax breaks, insurance, and other benefits associated with "married" couples, would then apply to any couple with a CU contract.
6. Old "Marriage Licenses" would be recognized as a CU contract.

I will ask you once again... WHY are you opposed to doing THIS?

To make it easier for you PINHEADS to answer, I'll give you some multiple choices to pick from, since you are obviously having trouble finding an answer to my question....

A. It doesn't let us continue harping and moaning about the racist right wingers!
B. It takes away one of our prized issues to bash the religious right with!
C. It would remove the strawman arguments that let us compare this with Civil Rights!
D. We wouldn't be able to throw shit in the face of Religion!
E. Gay people would then actually be able to have the benefits the little queers want!
F. We don't want to solve problems, we just want to argue about them incessantly!


Okay... take your pick or submit your own, but answer the goddamn question already!

Then you admit that this is sex discrimination!! Good Job :good4u:

You only want to say it's different; because otherwise your entire whine falls apart.

Rather then go through all your points, why not just allow them to marry??
Now, answer the fucking question.
 
Then you admit that this is sex discrimination!! Good Job :good4u:

You only want to say it's different; because otherwise your entire whine falls apart.

Rather then go through all your points, why not just allow them to marry??
Now, answer the fucking question.

I admitted no such thing, but it doesn't surprise me you failed to comprehend that, you seem to have a fundamental comprehension problem. For instance, you still haven't answered the question. I've already answered yours, I have repeated my answer numerous times, you disagree with me, but I answered. All of that aside, I presented a viable and realistic SOLUTION to the problem, and you can't tell me why you are opposed, even with multiple choices I gave you to pick from! I guess that means you want to hide from it, and not answer because you are ashamed, I don't blame you one bit.
 
I admitted no such thing, but it doesn't surprise me you failed to comprehend that, you seem to have a fundamental comprehension problem. For instance, you still haven't answered the question. I've already answered yours, I have repeated my answer numerous times, you disagree with me, but I answered. All of that aside, I presented a viable and realistic SOLUTION to the problem, and you can't tell me why you are opposed, even with multiple choices I gave you to pick from! I guess that means you want to hide from it, and not answer because you are ashamed, I don't blame you one bit.

You made the following comment:
"Not the same thing. People were being denied the 'right' (I still don't agree it's a right) to marry someone based on the color of their skin, which was racial discrimination."
*I added the Bold print and such*

I rejected all of your options as un-needed. :palm:
But I can see why you have to stick to your archaic ideas and it's because you're scared. :good4u:
No need to be scared; because I doubt that anyone wants to have a same sex relationship with you. :cof1:
 
I always find it fascinating how the "gay" civil rights issues eventually are equated with the Civil Rights movement of black folk.

Yes, civil rights of citizens is an equalizer...but gay folk are NOT a race of people. Period. FOR THE MOST PART, YOU CANNOT TELL A GAY PERSON FROM A STRAIGHT PERSON UNLESS THERE IS A PHSYICAL DISPLAY TO INDICATE SUCH.

Big freaking difference from a race of people who were enslaved, segregated and discriminated on sight.
 
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