The Tesla Model 3 starts at $44,000 for the base model. It cannot carry nearly the load my cars do.
Which one?
I spent $12k on one and $25k on another (a high end model) and $14k on another and $13k on another.
I do my own repairs when necessary (rarely is) and all my own maintenance. All cars require maintenance, even EVs.
Oil is cheap. It change it approx twice a year. Gas and diesel oil are no more expensive than what you will wind up paying for keeping an EV charged for the same distance traveled.
Oh...and I don't have risk of battery fires like an EV has. Replacing the starter battery in a car is about $120. Replacing the battery on an EV (Tesla used as an example) is approx $25,000.
I can fuel a car in a few minutes. I don't have to wait hours and hours for an EV to charge. I can haul more than any Tesla too.
So electric cars are all dependent on the stories you tell. Is your repair and maintenance free? Does your work not count? Does your time? Try buying a pickup truck now. There are some with price tags over 100,000 bucks. You will not approach those numbers you gave.
Replacing batteries on electric cars is not routine maintenance. They will provide electricity for well over 100,000 miles. The routine maintenance is practically nonexistent.
