Portrait of a Modern Feminist: Helen Smith

I notice Blabo amended his post after the fact...when it dawned on him what he'd said.

Poor Blabo
 
Smith says "...women already consume about 75 percent of health care in the United States...". I don't know if her statistic is right or wrong but just the fact of becoming pregnant and bearing children contributes to a lot of that health care. Women are encouraged to get good prenatal care, have regular check-ups during and after pregnancy, and keep on top of other issues that may arise from having female organs (breast cancer, uterine or cervical cancer), not to mention ordinary preventive care. Men can go through life happily with perhaps a yearly physical because the bodily stress of child-bearing isn't a factor.

So, when its all said and done...You don't know but you don't like her claim? Do they or do they not consume 75% of the healthcare in the US....no one asked you why, its a one word answer.

I've read a stat of 75% but it related to chronic illness, not male or female consumption of resources. Why hasn't she provide her own proof via a link? I'm still trying to find back up for her statement.

Smith says "Men, on the other hand, are frequently encouraged not to go to the doctor for routine tests, including the life-saving PSA test to detect cancer." I don't know in which part of the universe that's the case. Every health insurance plan I ever had encouraged men to get physicals, preventive care and routine tests, such as annual bloodwork and the PSA after a man reaches a certain age (50?). My husband is one of those people who refuses to follow this schedule. He's from the school of "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." I've had this discussion with friends and you might be surprised at how many husbands or boyfriends believe as my husband does. How do you get people to do what's best for themselves?

Thats all irrelevant....again no one asks why .... 'some' men may not go, so what...?

It's not irrelevant if you're trying to determine whether her statement is true or false. Again, where's the source of the 75% comment?

Smith says "I absolutely think there’s a war on men. I laugh and cringe every time I see something on the ‘war on women'...". Whether or not there's a war on women may be up for debate but it's absurd to even think that in our male-dominated society there's a war on men, or that the deck is stacked against them. Case in point, job opportunities, salaries, the glass ceiling, politics.

Maybe she should have said "white men".....that would be more accurate...

Maybe she shouldn't have said it at all, but then again her statement was "I absolutely think", not "this is an absolute fact."

Smith claims “In the case of men, the government and the politicians work in cahoots with women to extract money from men...” What "cahoots" is she talking about, child support? That divorced or single fathers shouldn't be required to contribute to the upbringing of their offspring? Records show there are plenty of men dodging responsibilities for their children and getting away with it.

Did she mention 'child support' ?....Adding caveats or mis-stating what she said proves you're a loser and a hack.

Then why don't you explain what she means, since she herself didn't. I know name-calling is so much easier for you, but get real. What "cahoots" is she talking about?

Smith says "And then men aren’t entitled to a lot of the benefits, such as WIC (Women, Infants and Children Program) or a lot of welfare.” Well cry me a river. Infants and children shouldn't have to suffer for the poverty or bad decisions of their parents. And women are included in WIC if they're pregnant, breast-feeding or post-partum. It's about prevention of nutritional risk for the vulnerable, not booze and cigarettes. And if more women than men get welfare (not saying if this is or isn't true), maybe it's because more women than men live in poverty. Funny how this welfare stigma is exclusive to women, when do you ever hear about a "welfare king"?

Again you give us the why.....it doesn't change the fact of what she said....women are entitled to benefits because they are women...a simple truth....and now you demand we buy your Trojans.

Men are also entitled to benefits, just not WIC. Are you saying that all the infants and children in that title are female? WIC is targeted specifically at a certain group, pregnant or nursing mothers and their children. An 80-year old grandma isn't going to get WIC. Maybe women need WIC because there's not enough money to feed their children under the age of 5. What kind of person are you that you think innocent children should have to pay for the sins of their parents?

Smith writes "I’m a feminist in that I believe in equality, but that doesn’t mean the superiority of women." She states this opinion and tries to imply that all feminists have the opposite viewpoint. I don't know of any woman who wants more rights than men, just equal rights, and I hope this happens in my lifetime.

She states what she believes and YOU imply the opposite is true....it is exactly why women vote the way they do....you don't bite the hand that feeds you.....which is true of 'most' people....exactly the point was making on that tape that was mis-characterized and mis-interrupted by lefty liars.....

I'm not implying anything, I'm calling her a liar and a provocateur. She's no more representative of mainstream feminism than her counterparts on the extreme left.

Smith writes "Title IX, for example, a law passed forty years ago, to expand opportunities for female athletes, ended up curtailing the opportunities for men to participate in sports. This has made men feel “less welcome” on college campuses..." Come again? Show me the college football team with females on the offensive and defensive lines. School sports have been divided into girls' and boys' teams forever. Girls just want the chance to play sports in school and that shouldn't be a problem with anybody. I find her comment that Title IX makes men feel "less welcome on campus" is flat out false. Not every man who goes to college even wants to play team sports, in fact the majority don't.

You're entitled to your opinion....so are others entitled to theirs...

Yep, you're right. And I also have the right to point out factual inaccuracies when I see them. What is it with righties, that they can't express a viewpoint without descending into falsehoods? There may well be a discussion of how liberal and conservative women see and interpret feminism but Smith isn't contributing anything worthwhile to it.

You could be picking (or nit-picking) at her words....quite typical of pinheads today....the liberal media does it every day to liberal opponents...

And it's obvious Smith is relying on opinion, generalization, half-truths and lies, which is quite typical of conservatives today. (See Paul Ryan convention speech.)

Feeling life sucks as a women is exactly the attitude that led to the 'womens movement', womens lib and the failed ERA amendment.....and to a degree, the women had a point....its just if that "life sucks as a women" is all consuming, its not feminism....its more an obsession with the "I'm a victim crowd' that will never find satisfaction no matter what or how much they get....a mental illness.... and that would go for men also.....

"Life sucks", "I'm a victim", "mental illness" etc. are nothing but buzz words used to stir up feelings and it worked for you, didn't it. This clever but misguided woman had you come away with your viewpoint validated that liberal feminists are out there to take advantage of poor, defenseless men. You're not going to change now, you're just a product of all the dinosaurs who came before you. Maybe there's hope for your grandsons.
 
I never claimed you said that men have all the problems. I am not dreaming or irrational. I don't know of any feminist who claims that men are all rapists and molesters. Sounds like something you are projecting onto them for whatever reasons you may have. It's certainly not a feminist claim.

I don't need or want a reception of any kind from you. I'll speak when I want and say what I want. Your reaction to it is a matter of indifference to me.

Do you know why?

I don't have a problem.

And to repeat: neither do most men. Most men would laugh at the article Soc posted. Hysterically. Anyone who believes that there are any significant number of men out there expressing the thoughts this woman puts into the mouths of men, is delusional or an idiot, or both. That's not my problem. That's not most men's problem.

So we are left again with; who here has the problem?

I'll leave you to discover that. You seem to be a big problem solver.

If my reaction is a matter of indifference, then why are you posting? Obviously you're trying to get some reaction, even if it's just "You win". I've had two feminists(at least I assume that's what they were) go down the "men are rapists" path, and, had I been smarter I'd have walked away.


I'm not sure what your "problem" thing is about, seems to be alluding to something and I can't figure out what. Ah well, at least I figured out the sarcasm, maybe I'll move on to metaphor one day.
 

You have? When? Where? Link up.




Got any proof of that?




Sorry to disillusion you, but since you claimed "radicalism is the death of any movement", you need to provide the evidence.

Get started.

Prove that I've told the OWS and Tea party people they're dumb. Interesting...

Well I could use your reaction here as an example of the OWS bit, get enraged when I compare you to the TP and request proof of the similarity. So should I wander off and find Dixie and call him an OWS guy to prove the inverse?

Here I thought legion was growing up and learning to make sense, ah well. Time to take Aoxo's advice.
 
Prove that I've told the OWS and Tea party people they're dumb. Interesting...

So you can't? Interesting.

Well I could use your reaction here as an example of the OWS bit, get enraged when I compare you to the TP and request proof of the similarity.

Try it.

So should I wander off and find Dixie and call him an OWS guy to prove the inverse?

Did I say that?

Here I thought legion was growing up and learning to make sense, ah well. Time to take Aoxo's advice.

Not sure who this 'legion' is.

If you want to cut n' run like the others who lack the ability to debate, what's stopping you?
 
Gender gap for pay in my county.

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I've read a stat of 75% but it related to chronic illness, not male or female consumption of resources. Why hasn't she provide her own proof via a link? I'm still trying to find back up for her statement.

If you've already read the stat and it DID relate to chronic illness, what more are you looking for....
As I read the posts here only, it was a general statement of use of resources....

It's not irrelevant if you're trying to determine whether her statement is true or false. Again, where's the source of the 75% comment?

Again, if you've already seen the stat, why do you question its validity...?

Maybe she shouldn't have said it at all, but then again her statement was "I absolutely think", not "this is an absolute fact."

"Far from being discriminated against, women already consume about 75 percent of health care in the United States", Smith says.
THINK ?....Are we reading the same link ? I don't see the word 'think' in here statement.

Then why don't you explain what she means, since she herself didn't. I know name-calling is so much easier for you, but get real. What "cahoots" is she talking about?

Name calling ?....When folks put words into someones statement that weren't there, is makes then look like hacks....Sorry about that.
'cahoots' may be a poor choice of words, I agree, but 'women' seems to have become a protected group...instead of justice for all, its getting to be justice for some
while others are left out....we could have a whole discussion on this topic itself...

Men are also entitled to benefits, just not WIC. Are you saying that all the infants and children in that title are female? WIC is targeted specifically at a certain group, pregnant or nursing mothers and their children. An 80-year old grandma isn't going to get WIC. Maybe women need WIC because there's not enough money to feed their children under the age of 5. What kind of person are you that you think innocent children should have to pay for the sins of their parents?

I'm not saying its unjust or unfair...and Smith didn't either....its just the way it is....


I'm not implying anything, I'm calling her a liar and a provocateur. She's no more representative of mainstream feminism than her counterparts on the extreme left.
You're entitled to your opinion....her opinion is:

“I’m a feminist in that I believe in equality,” says Smith. “But that doesn’t mean the superiority of women. What has happened is that [a legitimate movement for equality] has morphed into a whole political system based on women having special privileges, and the more privileges they have the more entitled they feel.”
Think Ms. Fluke, demanding the taxpayers pay for protection so she doesn't get pregnant....you getting knocked-up in not the responsibility of the taxpayers....
nor should the entire consequences be....but that doesn't forgo us protecting those children from the necessities ....

Provocative ?...no doubt....but that opinion has some merit and I think it goes far beyond just women....I think that all "protected groups" get into that same
mind set....they grow from legitimate grievances to unreasonable demands in a heart beat....

Yep, you're right. And I also have the right to point out factual inaccuracies when I see them. What is it with righties, that they can't express a viewpoint without descending into falsehoods? There may well be a discussion of how liberal and conservative women see and interpret feminism but Smith isn't contributing anything worthwhile to it.

Facts can be argued and the truth will remain as fact. The fact we're having this exchange, is her contribution...justice to me is certainly not the same as justice to you...

And it's obvious Smith is relying on opinion, generalization, half-truths and lies, which is quite typical of conservatives today. (See Paul Ryan convention speech.)

What you call her 'half-truths and lies' is her opinion and her interpretation of issues....she deserves the same latitude as you demand of yours....

"Life sucks", "I'm a victim", "mental illness" etc. are nothing but buzz words used to stir up feelings and it worked for you, didn't it. This clever but misguided woman had you come away with your viewpoint validated that liberal feminists are out there to take advantage of poor, defenseless men. You're not going to change now, you're just a product of all the dinosaurs who came before you. Maybe there's hope for your grandsons.

You can't in all honesty deny that some women feel exactly like that...a victim and life sucks...even men do .... when the force of law backs some
aspect of womens lib, men do become victims and are somewhat defenseless...I was all for an ERA but thought is was redundant to the Constitution...
Face the truth....the liberation movement has become something different that what was imagined way back when....and not for equality in the
true sense of the word...there is no 'war on women'.....thats the clever mis-guided buzz word of the present.....
Maybe you'll re-think the simple word FAIRNESS and what it means to everyone, not just women, not just Eskimos, and not just some special group...
After all, some of my best friends are women.
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Are there any examples of women being paid less for doing the exact same job? That is illegal in the UK.

I'm not ignoring your posts, just trying to find some specific answers. So far this is what I found, from a PA legislator.

According to statistics released in 2009 by the U.S. Census Bureau, year-round, full-time working women in 2008 earned only 77 percent of the earnings of year-round, full-time working men, indicating little change or progress in pay equity. In Pennsylvania, women fare worse as they earn only 75 percent of their male colleagues...

According to an analysis of data in more than 300 classifications provided by the U.S. Department of Labor Statistics in 2001, women earn less in every occupational classification for which enough data is available, including occupations dominated by women (e.g., cashiers, retail sales, registered nurses and teachers).
..

http://www.kathywatson144.com/PE_FastFacts.aspx
 
Doesn't the GOP oppose equal pay for equal work?

Yes, they do. Why else wouldn't they sign a measure that insured fairness for everyone?

WASHINGTON -- Senate Republicans on Tuesday blocked a bill that would have ensured women are paid the same amount as their male counterparts. The Senate failed to secure the 60 votes needed to advance the Paycheck Fairness Act, which would have required employers to demonstrate that any salary differences between men and women doing the same work are not gender-related. The bill also would have prohibited employers from retaliating against employees who share salary information with their co-workers, and would have required the Labor Department to increase its outreach to employers to help eliminate pay disparities.


The final vote was 52-47, with all Republicans opposing the bill. That included female Sens. Kelly Ayotte (N.H.), Susan Collins (Maine), Kay Bailey Hutchison (Texas), Lisa Murkowski (Alaska) and Olympia Snowe (Maine).

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/05/paycheck-fairness-act-senate-vote_n_1571413.html
 
That's just bullshit, Darla sees rape apologists just about everywhere, maybe she should take her own advice to me and drop dead. Why don't you read the article I posted by Rosie Boycott and find out what a real British feminist thinks?

Because it goes against the agenda she's been promoting and without that, her entire world collapses around her.
 
Yes, they do. Why else wouldn't they sign a measure that insured fairness for everyone?

WASHINGTON -- Senate Republicans on Tuesday blocked a bill that would have ensured women are paid the same amount as their male counterparts. The Senate failed to secure the 60 votes needed to advance the Paycheck Fairness Act, which would have required employers to demonstrate that any salary differences between men and women doing the same work are not gender-related. The bill also would have prohibited employers from retaliating against employees who share salary information with their co-workers, and would have required the Labor Department to increase its outreach to employers to help eliminate pay disparities.


The final vote was 52-47, with all Republicans opposing the bill. That included female Sens. Kelly Ayotte (N.H.), Susan Collins (Maine), Kay Bailey Hutchison (Texas), Lisa Murkowski (Alaska) and Olympia Snowe (Maine).

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/05/paycheck-fairness-act-senate-vote_n_1571413.html

Thank God cooler heads prevailed.....its not what you get paid, its what you do to get that pay....

Do male nurses make more than female nurses ?... and if they do, are they doing something different in the job than the women do....
thats the important question.....

Government shouldn't start dictating what employees have to pay any one....if an employer isn't paying what you think you're worth, quit and find a better job.....thats the way its been since the beginning of civilization where people traded goods for services....and thats the way it should be.....

when you hire some one to paint you house, you don't get 10 estimates and hire the one that charges the most do you ?.....
Why should it be any different when the shoe is on the other foot....

You don't go for a new car and buy from the dealer that gives you the worst deal do you....?
 
This should get the lefties heads to explode.

http://www.iwf.org/modern-feminist/2789205/Portrait-of-a-Modern-Feminist:-Helen-Smith

One of the oft-cited “facts” at the Democratic Conventions was that being a woman was “a pre-existing condition” before Obamacare. Hooey, according to Dr. Helen Smith, a forensic psychologist known as “Dr. Helen” on Pajamas Media.
Far from being discriminated against, women already consume about 75 percent of health care in the United States, Smith says. Men, on the other hand, are frequently encouraged not to go to the doctor for routine tests, including the life-saving PSA test to detect cancer.

More at the website.

according to my wife, the sociologist, women are routinely ill treated by doctors who consider their complaints hypochondria and bids for attention

i used to accompany my wife to doctor appointments to insure that her complaint was treated as real, however, i no longer have to as we both have the same lady doctor (an internists) who takes her time and listens
 
No, I wasn't talking to you. I honestly had not even seen your first post. I had to go back and look. I reject your premise. Here's why: I don't have a problem.

So whose problem is this you speak of? I don't think people here really get this, or believe it or whatever. I have no problem. I honestly have never seen a bigger group of male assholes all gathered in one place. Oh, don't get me wrong...such places exist. But I don't hang in them. In my personal life my SO is a feminist himself. I never have to say "do you believe this" because he says it first. I once showed him, recently in fact, a rape thread on here and he literally could not believe it. He wanted to know wtf I was doing here. I had no answer. I have two brothers. Both fathers of young girls. In my entire life i have never heard them express the shit I read here.

To repeat; I have no problem. You know who else has no problem? Most men. If you take the author's premise seriously, you're an idiot. Men are refusing to go to college and purposefully only accepting low-wage jobs in order to spite women? LOL. College is being priced out of the reach of more and more people. Men (and women btw) who are in low-wage jobs are in them because they can't find anything else. A lot of that has to do with the shrinking of manufacturing in this country, and it also has a lot to do with the successful 30 year war on unions. Only an idiot would blame feminism...or someone who could make a profit from blaming feminism like this woman...or a bitter aging male who forgot what a pair of bare tits in his hands feels like and is filled with rage. Does any of this sound like it's my problem?

I couldn't possibly care less if certain feminists, or all feminists, annoy you. Tim McVeigh blew up little children. You point to a woman holding a sign as evidence that feminists are too radical. The only people white men don't profile are white men. This has nothing to do with me.

If you have a problem, I suggest you find some reading materials and try and solve it. I'm good. Thanks.

'...Oh, don't get me wrong...such places exist. But I don't hang in them...'

So it's our fault you're still here? :palm:
 
This is an article written in 2008 by Rosie Boycott, a very well known feminist in the UK. She co-founded Spare Rib magazine in the '70s.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...ass-citizens-womens-victories-come-price.html

Excellent article, Aoxomoxoa.

(Excerpt) What has actually happened, it seems to me, is that society, far from being feminised, has in fact been made more masculine, as both men and women fight to claim the ground that was once the preserve of men - that of high-flying, well-paid careers and glamorous lifestyles. (End)

That, in my opinion, is exactly what happened and being a feminist supporter I say, "Go to work, Baby!" :lol:

As article after article have mentioned a man's role was to provide for his family and like any provider they simply assumed the role of boss. Whether it's the person who makes out your pay check (pay cheque) or gives you money for groceries it's understood they're the "boss". Now that women have their own money the man is no longer considered the boss. The woman has, in effect, become a partner in the family "business" and some men don't like that.

There are numerous other points the author makes such as, (Excerpt)The women's movement turned all the old assumptions about men and women's roles in society on their head - and that seismic shift coincided with a fundamental shift in the nature of work itself, as Western countries changed from labour-based to knowledge-based economies, thus eliminating the need for brawn and physical strength. Indeed, the new demands of the workplace, requiring multi-tasking and human interaction, positively favour women over men. (End)

And, (Excerpt) When I first began to campaign for a woman's right to work and to succeed in whatever profession she chose, I never imagined that one of the casualties would be the status given to those who rear children. In part, I think, this is the fault of a government which, unlike its equivalent in Scandinavian countries, has never made childcare a priority. (End)

I couldn't agree more with those conclusions which brings us to a very important point. Men have always been the chaser when it comes to relationships/getting the gal. Very few things are more hotly contested than who gets the gal so money, money and money were the three most important things.

That has changed. Now a gal can choose a man who offers other qualities. Now a man doesn't require a fat wallet to compete. Now the guy on the shop floor has just as much chance of "bonding" with the VP as does her co-worker. Now both sexes have an equal chance of acquiring a suitable partner and I, for one, would never want to turn back the clock.

One of my favorite lines is, "And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should." While there are adjustments to be made and snags to be worked out the realization of the passion two people have for each other is depending less and less on one's material worth. When it comes to disparaging woman's lib nothing can counteract the positive that has come about through birth control, sexual freedom and equal employment opportunities.
 
Well, well, well. Apple has hit on something very very important here, and I have to say I wouldn't have expected that.

"I couldn't agree more with those conclusions which brings us to a very important point. Men have always been the chaser when it comes to relationships/getting the gal. Very few things are more hotly contested than who gets the gal so money, money and money were the three most important things.

That has changed. Now a gal can choose a man who offers other qualities. Now a man doesn't require a fat wallet to compete. Now the guy on the shop floor has just as much chance of "bonding" with the VP as does her co-worker. Now both sexes have an equal chance of acquiring a suitable partner and I, for one, would never want to turn back the clock."


Yes. But what has been another side effect of this? Women can choose. Choose based on what they want rather than on what they need. THey can choose a sex partner strictly out of desire rather than for basic sustenance. Don't forget back in the 50's men pretty much had a woman assigned to fuck them. No matter how disgusting they were, (and I am not necessarily talking physical attributes, or at least not solely, here) our culture for all intent and purpose, assigned a woman to his bed every night. Because in order to have a home, to have security, to have food, to have children, indeed, even in order not to be one of society's outcasts (the old maid) women had to marry. And many did not marry from desire, or love.

You now have a lot of sexual losers out there in our brave new world. You can see them at any MRA site hatefully bitching that the woman of their choice refuses to go to bed with them. Why? Because she is in bed with someone she desires.

She is behaving like a man.

That's why men whining about women's liberation and feminism always make me smirk. Because I know. I know.
 
No, I wasn't talking to you. I honestly had not even seen your first post. I had to go back and look. I reject your premise. Here's why: I don't have a problem.

So whose problem is this you speak of? I don't think people here really get this, or believe it or whatever. I have no problem. I honestly have never seen a bigger group of male assholes all gathered in one place. Oh, don't get me wrong...such places exist. But I don't hang in them. In my personal life my SO is a feminist himself. I never have to say "do you believe this" because he says it first. I once showed him, recently in fact, a rape thread on here and he literally could not believe it. He wanted to know wtf I was doing here. I had no answer. I have two brothers. Both fathers of young girls. In my entire life i have never heard them express the shit I read here.

To repeat; I have no problem. You know who else has no problem? Most men. If you take the author's premise seriously, you're an idiot. Men are refusing to go to college and purposefully only accepting low-wage jobs in order to spite women? LOL. College is being priced out of the reach of more and more people. Men (and women btw) who are in low-wage jobs are in them because they can't find anything else. A lot of that has to do with the shrinking of manufacturing in this country, and it also has a lot to do with the successful 30 year war on unions. Only an idiot would blame feminism...or someone who could make a profit from blaming feminism like this woman...or a bitter aging male who forgot what a pair of bare tits in his hands feels like and is filled with rage. Does any of this sound like it's my problem?

I couldn't possibly care less if certain feminists, or all feminists, annoy you. Tim McVeigh blew up little children. You point to a woman holding a sign as evidence that feminists are too radical. The only people white men don't profile are white men. This has nothing to do with me.

If you have a problem, I suggest you find some reading materials and try and solve it. I'm good. Thanks.


Amen, Sister!! Damn, you're good!

Just recently we've seen the neanderthal hearings on birth control and whether it's a health matter. Gawd help us! And not one person who has a uterus on a panel discussing women's health issues.

It's so prima facie absurd/outrageous. Remember John Ashcroft having the statue showing a woman's breast covered up? Remember Congressional hearings on Janet Jackson's breast?

All they can do is discuss such issues because that's as close as they'll ever get to the real thing. Old men who have money and power but who will never obtain what the average guy on the street is getting and they know if they ever tried to pay for it they would be exposed and dragged through the media. In their envy and bitterness they want to cage women. Their wealth and position, rather than helping, is preventing them from obtaining what they desire.

To paraphrase Spock, "Sometimes wanting is preferable to having." May they deal with the down side of their prestige.
 
Well, well, well. Apple has hit on something very very important here, and I have to say I wouldn't have expected that.

"I couldn't agree more with those conclusions which brings us to a very important point. Men have always been the chaser when it comes to relationships/getting the gal. Very few things are more hotly contested than who gets the gal so money, money and money were the three most important things.

That has changed. Now a gal can choose a man who offers other qualities. Now a man doesn't require a fat wallet to compete. Now the guy on the shop floor has just as much chance of "bonding" with the VP as does her co-worker. Now both sexes have an equal chance of acquiring a suitable partner and I, for one, would never want to turn back the clock."


Yes. But what has been another side effect of this? Women can choose. Choose based on what they want rather than on what they need. THey can choose a sex partner strictly out of desire rather than for basic sustenance. Don't forget back in the 50's men pretty much had a woman assigned to fuck them. No matter how disgusting they were, (and I am not necessarily talking physical attributes, or at least not solely, here) our culture for all intent and purpose, assigned a woman to his bed every night. Because in order to have a home, to have security, to have food, to have children, indeed, even in order not to be one of society's outcasts (the old maid) women had to marry. And many did not marry from desire, or love.

You now have a lot of sexual losers out there in our brave new world. You can see them at any MRA site hatefully bitching that the woman of their choice refuses to go to bed with them. Why? Because she is in bed with someone she desires.

She is behaving like a man.

That's why men whining about women's liberation and feminism always make me smirk. Because I know. I know.

Exactly! And that benefits both sexes. The only one who doesn't benefit is the one who thinks they're the "boss". Just as women can choose which man she prefers the man in the sexless marriage can obtain a "mistress" without having to support her. While the wife can say, "No sex", the man can say, "No problem" and that's true equality.
 
Gender gap for pay in my county.

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How many of those women drop out of the work force to have children and how does that impact their wages? Just because a person has attained a specific level of education doesn't mean that A. They have the same quality of education and B. That they have the same level of job experience. Many young women drop out of the work force to raise children and this has a significant impact on their wages when they go back into the work force. Is that fair? Well yes and no. It's certainly fair from an employers standpoint as those who reach a specified level of education and have substantially more work experience are generally more skilled and productive workers. Is it unfair to women that the job of child rearing isn't as valued economically in our society? Sure it is, but I don't know what the resolution to that problem is. Someone has to raise the kids. It's also been my experience that women with the same level and quality of education who remain in the work force usually have comparable earnings to their male counterparts.

For example, I work with 5 women in my group. All 5 make less than I do. Two of them have attained neither my level education, professional certification and have 12 to 15 years less experience in this job. One has my level of education but she only has an MBA and not a Masters in science degree and again has only 6 years experience to my 23. Of the two remaining that do have my level and quality of education only one has professional certification and both have around 10 years experience and they make slightly less than I do but only because I've been doing job at a higher level for a longer period of time. All these women except one are about my age. Why do I have substantially more experience then them? They all dropped out of the work force for about 10 years to raise children.
 
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